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Sola Sync Wireless Wand Review
Whilst I've basically given up orgasming this year, that doesn't mean I've not tested the masturbatory prowess of the Sola Sync Wireless Wand. Honestly, it also makes a wonderful back massager with the shape of the handle fitting over the shoulder perfectly - ever the cliche, I know! But how does it hold up for a toy that most claim is 'accessible? Let's find out.
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Hot Octopuss Jett Review
I was apprehensive to test out the Hot Octopuss Jett due to my history with previous Hot Octopuss toys - not the Pocket Pulse. Each time I've been looking forward to testing the toy and each time my expectations haven't been met, at all. Will this time be different?
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How to give a handjob with costochondritis.
What has costochondritis got to do with handjobs? I first wrote a post on blowjobs because I couldn't find any advice on how to give on with TMD, and similar with costochondritis. Giving a handjob with costochondritis is sometimes hell.
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6 Ways To Ease First Time Smear Test Nerves
As someone who's suffered with anxiety for almost a decade, I can remember the sheer terror of my first smear test like it was yesterday. I used to be terrified of anything medical – even going to the doctors to get some hay fever tablets sent my anxiety through the roof. And the prospect of having a smear test was extreme. But of course, the letter came eventually and off I went to my very first smear test. Smear tests can be hard for a lot of people for a lot of different reasons. But they're such incredibly important tests that can literally save your life, that it's important to…
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Nexplanon Removal – IT FINALLY HAPPENED!
After exchanging the typical British social niceties, ‘we wear masks now/the weather/sorry for the wait’, the doctor ran through the reasons for getting the implant out. Mine were: two stone weight gain, nightmares which increase in frequency and intensity before my period, hormonal acne, worsening of all current symptoms since the Nexplanon implant went in, and pain from the implantation site that has not gone away. Of course, I didn’t remember all these at that time, so I blurted out three and then the rest I remembered over the hour I was there.
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The Nexplanon Implant Still Sucks
At the beginning of October 2019, I got the Nexplanon implant. It wasn’t completely unwillingly, it had been discussed, however, I did not want it. The only reason I agreed to it was that I knew I’d be seen as a ‘troublemaker’ if I didn’t try it again before more extreme treatment. That’s the reality of birth control. If you refuse to take it because you know it’s going to be bad for you, the doctors see it as dissent and questioning them and get very arsey at you. Granted, I am quite jaded and bitter nowadays but it still rings true.
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An orgasm a day triggers a flare.*
I had sex on Wednesday. It was the type of sex where you just fall into it. It starts with some kissing, a little fondling and the next thing you know, you need to fuck. You don't care what happens to your body, you just know that there's a deep, visceral need to fuck. ... can someone tell past me that's reckless behaviour? Because apparently, I do not listen to myself, or my own advice.
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8 Tips to Have Sex with POTs – POTs and Sex Positions
The lighted headiness, the loss of balance, the blackouts, and moments of confusion. If you suffer from postural tachycardia as I do, then you know these symptoms can occur during the most inconvenient times. One of these moments is during sex sometimes, leading to a moment of slight embarrassments. At times I’ve laid in bed and jokingly said to my partner that the pleasure was so intense it made me faint.
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Why TF am I in So Much Pain When I Ride My Partner?
I never suspected that the deep pain in my uterus during sex would be connected to my urinary incontinence too. Let me clear, missionary feels great, doggy style is fun, but cowgirl, faceoff or reverse cowgirl might as well have been a stick verberating my insides.
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How To Navigate Sex With an Anxiety Disorder
Sex is supposed to be fun. It's supposed to be a way to switch off and forget about the problems in your life whilst you spend some time wrapped up and lost in someone else, the sensations and the pleasure. It's supposed to get you out of your own head for a while. But when you suffer from an anxiety disorder which has riddled every aspect of your life with worry and dread, getting out of your own head can be near enough impossible at times. This was the case for me for a very long time.
