Welcome to Arousibility!

Arousibility site started out as a personal blogging site, but over time it grew into so much more.

Arousibility.com covers many topics ranging from general ed, sex and , to how to have sex with specific conditions. We don’t shy away from the taboo. We also very much enjoy picking apart sex toys to look at just how accessible (or usually how inaccessible) they are, and we love to show that accessibility doesn’t stop at outdoor ramps.

It is our aim to include more voices from all walks of life, so please get in touch with us if you’d like to be featured on our blog. Companies, we’d love to work with you! Please visit our Work With Us page.

All About Ruby

Hello! I’m Ruby Rousson. I am a queer British freelancer, writer, sex worker, and sex educator who runs Arousibility, Parlour Talk, Business and Brain Fog and The Ruby Umbrella.

Through Arousibility I want people to become educated on all the nuances about sex that aren’t taught in school because sex is not simple. It’s chaotic, messy, and really not straightforward. Sometimes you’re with a partner that is chronically fatigued. Sometimes you’ve got to navigate over sensitised nerves. And sometimes you realise you’re allergic to the lube you’ve just put in your vagina – guilty.

No one is taught how to have sex with a disability or , you just have to figure it out – usually with no help from doctors. I want Arousibility to become a place where people can figure out how to give blow jobs with jaw pain, find solidarity that sometimes sex hurts, or know that hearing loss CAN impact bedroom adventures.

Disclaimer: This site contains content of an adult nature (inc. sex toy , pictures, , and discussions about sex, sensuality, and content of the erotic nature). Anyone that is under the legal age in their country to view adult-orientated material should not view this blog.

If you’re under the legal age to access adult materials where you live, please leave, and if you are a minor and looking for information about sex, or your body, please visit ScarleteenBrook, or Bish.

All pictures featured unless otherwise stated (or you see a watermark on them), are from Story Blocks, Canva, Deposit Photos, and, Pexels.