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Obituary for My Period
I am now post-menopausal and proud, but I cringe when I remember the monthly angst I endured surrounding PMS and my period.
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Masturbation is my cure for depression ever since I got over the guilt.
It’s the year 2020 and it’s still a common practice in India to shame women for having sexual needs. Our appetite for sex is supposed to be non-existent, with the act of intercourse restricted to only either pleasing the husband or bearing children.
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Kink & Chronic Pain
I’d estimate that I’m in pain about 80% of the time. I have hypermobile joints that often end up out of place, meaning that I spend the majority of my waking hours experiencing at least one nagging ache, if not multiple aches of varying severity. On my worst days, I struggle to walk normally, I can’t open bottles or undo…
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Essure
What do you do when you've researched, fact checked, read reviews, and done your deciding, only to find out that your well researched choice was almost the worst possible choice? Well, for starters, you do everything you can not to die. Then you take all of that guilt and self loathing and you chuck it out the window because it…
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I am a queer, polyamorous, kinky autistic and I don’t care why.
So often when you talk about these things that's the question which comes up over and over again. Why? Why are you trans: is it because you were indoctrinated? Why are you bisexual: is it because you're still half in the closet? Why are you kinky: is it because you were traumatised? Why are you poly: is it because you're…
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How to give a handjob with costochondritis.
What has costochondritis got to do with handjobs? I first wrote a post on blowjobs because I couldn't find any advice on how to give on with TMD, and similar with costochondritis. Giving a handjob with costochondritis is sometimes hell.
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6 Ways To Ease First Time Smear Test Nerves
As someone who's suffered with anxiety for almost a decade, I can remember the sheer terror of my first smear test like it was yesterday. I used to be terrified of anything medical – even going to the doctors to get some hay fever tablets sent my anxiety through the roof. And the prospect of having a smear test was…
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Nexplanon Removal – IT FINALLY HAPPENED!
After exchanging the typical British social niceties, ‘we wear masks now/the weather/sorry for the wait’, the doctor ran through the reasons for getting the implant out. Mine were: two stone weight gain, nightmares which increase in frequency and intensity before my period, hormonal acne, worsening of all current symptoms since the Nexplanon implant went in, and pain from the implantation…
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The Nexplanon Implant Still Sucks
At the beginning of October 2019, I got the Nexplanon implant. It wasn’t completely unwillingly, it had been discussed, however, I did not want it. The only reason I agreed to it was that I knew I’d be seen as a ‘troublemaker’ if I didn’t try it again before more extreme treatment. That’s the reality of birth control. If you…
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An orgasm a day triggers a flare.*
I had sex on Wednesday. It was the type of sex where you just fall into it. It starts with some kissing, a little fondling and the next thing you know, you need to fuck. You don't care what happens to your body, you just know that there's a deep, visceral need to fuck. ... can someone tell past me…
