• BDSM & Fetish,  Sex & Disability

    Kink & Chronic Pain

    I’d estimate that I’m in pain about 80% of the time. I have hypermobile joints that often end up out of place, meaning that I spend the majority of my waking hours experiencing at least one nagging ache, if not multiple aches of varying severity. On my worst days, I struggle to walk normally, I can’t open bottles or undo…

  • BDSM & Fetish

    Breaking Down BDSM, Part 1

    Let's clear something up, BDSM and fetish aren't as scary as some people think. The media loves to sensationalise everything nowadays, and unfortunately BDSM isn’t exempt from that.  I’m going to break down BDSM, and simplify it so you can see that it’s pretty straightforward. For context, I have been practicing BDSM for quite some time - nearly 7 years…

  • BDSM & Fetish,  Sex Work

    Being a Professional Dominatrix with a Disability

    I am a pretty darn good Dominatrix.  It doesn’t matter whether I’m playing for fun with play partners, paid professional work in a real-time scenario, or online sessions with clients – I’m good. I also happen to be disabled. Now, this doesn’t detract from my abilities, my kink, nor the way I conduct my sessions – whether they’re online or…

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