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How to give a handjob with costochondritis.
What has costochondritis got to do with handjobs? I first wrote a post on blowjobs because I couldn't find any advice on how to give on with TMD, and similar with costochondritis. Giving a handjob with costochondritis is sometimes hell.
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8 Tips to Have Sex with POTs – POTs and Sex Positions
The lighted headiness, the loss of balance, the blackouts, and moments of confusion. If you suffer from postural tachycardia as I do, then you know these symptoms can occur during the most inconvenient times. One of these moments is during sex sometimes, leading to a moment of slight embarrassments. At times I’ve laid in bed and jokingly said to my…
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How To Navigate Sex With an Anxiety Disorder
Sex is supposed to be fun. It's supposed to be a way to switch off and forget about the problems in your life whilst you spend some time wrapped up and lost in someone else, the sensations and the pleasure. It's supposed to get you out of your own head for a while. But when you suffer from an anxiety…
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How do you make sex toys accessible? 9 ways to make sex toys accessible, or at least get you thinking.
How do you make sex toys accessible? 9 ways to make sex toys accessible, or at least get you thinking. I’ve had a number of conversations about how to make sex toys accessible with various people, from bloggers to industry folks, and to my partner. The short story, there’s no one way to make every single sex toy on the market…
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How to find kink friendly therapists.
How to find kink-friendly therapists. Therapy is hard, there are no ifs and or buts about it. Therapy is one of the most mentally challenging things I’ve ever done. It’s even harder if you want to visit a therapist and talk about BDSM, fetishes or the like. Many therapists aren’t opened minded enough to talk about some topics, but that’s…
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BDSM 101
BDSM 101 A whip here, a tickle there, and a needle somewhere delicate … Everyone has limits. Everyone. Even ‘no limits’ subs that approach me begging to whip them, whether they realise it or not have limits – I’m betting they don’t want me to chop off a vital limb, or perform open heart surgery on them. Limits aren’t a bad…
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14 Practical Blow Job & Jaw Pain Tips
Let’s talk about blow jobs! Note: I can only speak from personal experience, and the tips and tricks below are things I’ve learned over the years giving head to dildos, penises and the like. This post is also phallus orientated, occasionally penis orientated, and sometimes orgasms in relation to penises orientated. I love blow jobs. Not only do I adore…
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5 Ways to Feel Attractive During a Symptom Flare
Aka, “I’m experimenting with ways to make myself feel moderately human again.” I feel rotten. I don’t feel attractive, and I definitely don’t feel sexy. Last night, I told that to my partner. He’s a good egg. He reassured me I’m still attractive, and had my hips been willing he would have definitely had sex with me. But, my brain isn’t quite…
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8 Low Impact and Low Cost Valentine’s Day Ideas
8 Low Impact & Low-Cost Valentine’s Day Ideas Contrary to the commercial advertising shoved down the throats of money, Valentine’s Day isn’t about giving your partner or partners expensive gifts in an attempt to prove just how much you love them. It’s about showing them you care. First things first, make sure you know what your partner(s) likes. Don’t purchase…
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Let’s Talk Sex and Disability
Let’s Talk Sex and Disability What I want to do, and what my disability allows me to do are two very different things. Let’s talk about sex and disability. When you put me down on paper there are a million and one things I physically can’t do – my body just doesn’t function like the stereotypical ‘normal’. Like I mentioned in my…
