• Gift Lists,  Holiday

    Lovehoney: 10 Stocking Fillers Under £10

    ... I couldn't resist posting this early. Here is the second part of 10 Stocking Fillers Under £10, this time for Lovehoney! If you missed the first one it was for Ann Summers, and over the next few weeks you'll see more of these pop up for Amazon, Bondara, Honour, and more.

  • Gift Lists,  Holiday

    Ann Summers: 10 Under £10

    It's never too early to get ahead when it comes to Christmas preparations! I'd also say that November isn't too early to start playing Christmas songs, but the Gent disagrees. I'm banned until the 2nd of December. To stoke my budding Christmas excitement, I shall be posting a new gift guide, the first batch being stocking fillers under £10. I…

  • Disability,  Guides,  Sex & Disability

    How do you make sex toys accessible? 9 ways to make sex toys accessible, or at least get you thinking.

    How do you make sex toys accessible? 9 ways to make sex toys accessible, or at least get you thinking. I’ve had a number of conversations about how to make sex toys accessible with various people, from bloggers to industry folks, and to my partner. The short story, there’s no one way to make every single sex toy on the market…

  • Guides

    How to find kink friendly therapists. 

    How to find kink-friendly therapists. Therapy is hard, there are no ifs and or buts about it. Therapy is one of the most mentally challenging things I’ve ever done. It’s even harder if you want to visit a therapist and talk about BDSM, fetishes or the like. Many therapists aren’t opened minded enough to talk about some topics, but that’s…

  • Guides

    BDSM 101

    BDSM 101 A whip here, a tickle there, and a needle somewhere delicate … Everyone has limits. Everyone. Even ‘no limits’ subs that approach me begging to whip them, whether they realise it or not have limits – I’m betting they don’t want me to chop off a vital limb, or perform open heart surgery on them. Limits aren’t a bad…

  • Guides,  Sex & Disability

    14 Practical Blow Job & Jaw Pain Tips

    14 Practical Blow Job & Jaw Pain Tips Let’s talk about blow jobs! Note: I can only speak from personal experience. The tips and tricks below are things I’ve learned over the years giving head to dildos, penises and the like. This post is phallus, occasionally penis, and sometimes orgasms in relation to penises orientated. I love blow jobs. Not…

  • Guides,  Sex & Disability

    5 Ways to Feel Attractive During a Symptom Flare

    Aka, “I’m experimenting with ways to make myself feel moderately human again.” I feel rotten. I don’t feel attractive, and I definitely don’t feel sexy. Last night, I told that to my partner. He’s a good egg. He reassured me I’m still attractive, and had my hips been willing he would have definitely had sex with me. But, my brain isn’t quite…

  • Guides,  Sex & Disability

    8 Low Impact and Low Cost Valentine’s Day Ideas

    8 Low Impact & Low-Cost Valentine’s Day Ideas Contrary to the commercial advertising shoved down the throats of money, Valentine’s Day isn’t about giving your partner or partners expensive gifts in an attempt to prove just how much you love them. It’s about showing them you care. First things first, make sure you know what your partner(s) likes. Don’t purchase…

  • Guides,  Sex & Disability

    Let’s Talk Sex and Disability

    Let’s Talk Sex and Disability What I want to do, and what my disability allows me to do are two very different things. Let’s talk about sex and disability. When you put me down on paper there are a million and one things I physically can’t do – my body just doesn’t function like the stereotypical ‘normal’. Like I mentioned in my…