• Personal,  Sex Work,  Thoughts

    Caring too much about the wrong thing.

    I give too many fucks. I've known that I give too many fucks for some time, but a conversation with my partner at 2am this morning really highlighted that fact when every worry I had was met with 'that's because you care too much'. Caring is great, in fact the world would be a better place if people cared even a…

  • Erotic Musings,  Personal,  Thoughts

    That One Fantasy

    That One Fantasy There’s always that one fantasy – my go-to, that gets me off. Sure, there are other fantasies in my brain, and variations of those fantasies that I drift to from time to time. But for the most part, I know that my old dependable fantasy will get me off. I know how to stretch it out with…

  • Erotic Musings,  Thoughts

    Sweet dreams from my scheming vagina.

    There are times when I’m horny, and then there are times where I’m horny.  This week, all week long, I’ve been horny. I’ve been that horny I’ve had four blissful orgasms in my sleep, and many more whilst awake. And yet, I still want more.  I’m at the point where I want to jump my partner (not literally, that would end…

  • Personal,  Sex Work,  Thoughts

    My Sex Work Story

    How I got into sex work, and why. This post I’m going to talk about my journey into sex work, but first, a little intro. To make a long story short I’m disabled. I have and have had undiagnosed widespread chronic pain, plus a wide assortment of weird medical maladies for 10 going on 11 years now. Being a medical mystery/pain in the…

  • Personal,  Thoughts

    Sometimes Sex Hurts

    Sometimes sex hurts.  It would be really remiss of me to write about sex toys, sex, and sexuality, without including the realities of sex. Sometimes sex hurts, whether that’s because you don’t get on with position, a part of your anatomy is playing up – depending on the time of the month of the cervix will sit lower or higher…

  • Mental Health,  Personal,  Thoughts

    How therapy impacts my sex life.

    How therapy impacts my sex life. At the moment I’m going through a lot, though I feel a lot is a bit of an understatement. I’ve restarted therapy, proper therapy. The therapy sessions you finish with a relieved sigh, and then promptly go home to clean yourself afterward. The therapy sessions that make you feel like an hour in the…

  • Erotic Musings,  Personal

    F*ck Me Out of My Funk

    F*ck Me Out of My Funk This is my first ever post for Masturbation Monday, and it’s the first erotica post I’ve published on this site. I’m only a tiny bit nervous … go easy on me in the comments! __ Sometimes you know what’s caused it. Sometimes you come home and find me watching horror movies. The only time…

  • Disability,  Opinion Pieces,  Personal,  Sex & Disability,  Thoughts

    My sexual needs, wants, and desires are secondary.

    My sexual needs, wants, and desires are secondary. Disability and sexuality … according to the medical system.  Recently I wrote a piece about Eroticon, and how it reawakens my sexuality. This piece is in some ways an accompaniment to that, this piece is how my sexuality got pummelled, pulverised, and ultimately put away. Then I saw a bunch of tweets…

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