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Relearning Pleasure as an Autistic Woman
There was always something else underneath, something that messed with my brain for a long time; ‘pleasure’ was sort of off limits.
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Hi, I’m disabled. Pay me. [Video Transcript]
I am a fairly young 25-year-old disabled, full-time self-employed person and today I'm gonna talk to you about my worth as a disabled person. So, this has all been spurred on because I got a Twitter DM, oh Twitter DM's, and I decided that instead of writing something about it I was going to make a video. One, because I…
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Nexplanon Removal – IT FINALLY HAPPENED!
After exchanging the typical British social niceties, ‘we wear masks now/the weather/sorry for the wait’, the doctor ran through the reasons for getting the implant out. Mine were: two stone weight gain, nightmares which increase in frequency and intensity before my period, hormonal acne, worsening of all current symptoms since the Nexplanon implant went in, and pain from the implantation…
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2020, the year I stop masturbating.
I've had a bit of a revelation. So, let’s talk about my relationship with masturbation. I like orgasms. I really like them. However, because my body is complicated having an orgasm isn’t straightforward. Orgasms cause pain, exhaustion, and occasionally these effects that last for weeks. I really wish I was joking, but I’m not. Orgasming can truly fuck me up,…
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Putting the person back in personal care.
Over the years I’ve had a number of different treatments, some superficial – nails, eyebrows, and some cosmetic – Dermapen, and laser hair removal. However, I got rather ill in late 2017, and since then my beauty routine has changed out of necessity. I can’t to do a lot of the things are used to be able to and that…
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Why buttons are import, and why I focus on them in reviews.
If a toy has buttons, I will comment on them. Honestly, it’s going to be a key feature of my reviews nowadays because it has to be. Buttons are a massive accessibility issue within the sex toy industry, and not many people are getting it right.
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15 Practical Blow Job Tips for TMD, Part 2
Part 1 of the blow job tips and jaw pain was one of those posts that blew up unexpectedly, and since I’m still giving blow jobs, and my jaw is still a right bastard I have even more tips for you! Some are new, and some are an extension of the tips from the first part. Like last time, a…
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Why are Tulipán’s consent condoms a bad idea?
Tulipán has created a ‘consent condom’. Unsurprisingly, it is an inaccessible design that won’t reduce sexual assault or increase condom use. It is ableist, and on the whole a bad idea.
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Designed for ‘the disabled’.
I’ve had an itch in the back of my mind for the past few months, and today it developed into a full blown scratch. The reason? I received an email a couple of months ago, and I’ve been unable to reply. I’ve been exhausted the past few months, and my tolerance for ‘teaching others about disability’ is low. So, here’s…
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Caring too much about the wrong thing.
I give too many fucks. I've known that I give too many fucks for some time, but a conversation with my partner at 2am this morning really highlighted that fact when every worry I had was met with 'that's because you care too much'. Caring is great, in fact the world would be a better place if people cared even a…
