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Hi, I’m disabled. Pay me. [Video Transcript]
I am a fairly young 25-year-old disabled, full-time self-employed person and today I'm gonna talk to you about my worth as a disabled person. So, this has all been spurred on because I got a Twitter DM, oh Twitter DM's, and I decided that instead of writing something about it I was going to make a video. One, because I…
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2020, the year I stop masturbating.
I've had a bit of a revelation. So, let’s talk about my relationship with masturbation. I like orgasms. I really like them. However, because my body is complicated having an orgasm isn’t straightforward. Orgasms cause pain, exhaustion, and occasionally these effects that last for weeks. I really wish I was joking, but I’m not. Orgasming can truly fuck me up,…
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Why are Tulipán’s consent condoms a bad idea?
Tulipán has created a ‘consent condom’. Unsurprisingly, it is an inaccessible design that won’t reduce sexual assault or increase condom use. It is ableist, and on the whole a bad idea.
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Caring too much about the wrong thing.
I give too many fucks. I've known that I give too many fucks for some time, but a conversation with my partner at 2am this morning really highlighted that fact when every worry I had was met with 'that's because you care too much'. Caring is great, in fact the world would be a better place if people cared even a…
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“Good for Disabled People”
“Good for Disabled People” This gets a whole section and a soapbox. This section was originally within my review of the Rocks Off Ruby Glow toy, however as soon as it reached 800 words I knew I had to split it all up. 2,000 words is far too much to easily read in one sitting. So, I know the Ruby…
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Accessible Lingerie
Accessible Lingerie This post is brought to you by being by myself for the first time in over a year, and trying – and failing to put lingerie on for work. I love lingerie, I wear it for work, pleasure, and play. I wear it for myself, for customers, and for my partner. But at the moment I can’t wear…
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Eroticon Talk on Sex Work and Disability | Part 3
“The aim of the talk was to give an inside view of what it’s like working within the adult industry whilst at the same time having a physical disability. Also to draw parallels between disability stigma, and sex work stigma – speaking personally as someone with a finger in each pie, sex work and disability are very similar in how…
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Eroticon Talk on Sex Work and Disability | Part 2
“The aim of the talk was to give an inside view of what it’s like working within the adult industry whilst at the same time having a physical disability. Also to draw parallels between disability stigma, and sex work stigma – speaking personally as someone with a finger in each pie, sex work and disability are very similar in how…
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Eroticon Talk on Sex Work and Disability | Part 1
Sex Work and Disability “The aim of the talk was to give an inside view of what it’s like working within the adult industry whilst at the same time having a physical disability. Also to draw parallels between disability stigma, and sex work stigma – speaking personally as someone with a finger in each pie, sex work and disability are…
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Body positivity when living with multiple chronic illnesses.
Body positivity when living with multiple chronic illnesses. I’m going to start off by saying that body positivity doesn’t come easy. Not that I think it comes easy to anyone, but it’s really easy to hate your body when it doesn’t do what you want it to do on a near-constant basis. It’s also really easy to gain a negative…
