• Disability,  Sex & Disability

    Hearing loss in the bedroom

    Something you may or may not know - I have hearing loss. As always with me, no one is sure why, and I'm still getting it investigated. I first noticed it late last year when everything else kicked off, and it seems to be accompanied by tinnitus, fluctuating sound independent of the hearing loss, vertigo and balance issues. Whilst I…

  • Articles,  Disability

    “Good for Disabled People”

    “Good for Disabled People” This gets a whole section and a soapbox. This section was originally within my review of the Rocks Off Ruby Glow toy, however as soon as it reached 800 words I knew I had to split it all up. 2,000 words is far too much to easily read in one sitting.  So, I know the Ruby…

  • Disability,  Guides,  Sex & Disability

    How do you make sex toys accessible? 9 ways to make sex toys accessible, or at least get you thinking.

    How do you make sex toys accessible? 9 ways to make sex toys accessible, or at least get you thinking. I’ve had a number of conversations about how to make sex toys accessible with various people, from bloggers to industry folks, and to my partner. The short story, there’s no one way to make every single sex toy on the market…

  • Articles,  Disability,  Sex & Disability

    My sexual needs, wants, and desires are secondary.

    My sexual needs, wants, and desires are secondary. Disability and sexuality … according to the medical system.  Recently I wrote a piece about Eroticon, and how it reawakens my sexuality. This piece is in some ways an accompaniment to that, this piece is how my sexuality got pummelled, pulverised, and ultimately put away. Then I saw a bunch of tweets…

  • Articles,  Lingerie Reviews,  Sex & Disability

    Accessible Lingerie

    Accessible Lingerie  This post is brought to you by being by myself for the first time in over a year, and trying – and failing to put lingerie on for work. I love lingerie, I wear it for work, pleasure, and play. I wear it for myself, for customers, and for my partner. But at the moment I can’t wear…

  • Sex & Disability,  Sex Work

    Eroticon Talk on Sex Work and Disability | Part 3

    “The aim of the talk was to give an inside view of what it’s like working within the adult industry whilst at the same time having a physical disability. Also to draw parallels between disability stigma, and sex work stigma – speaking personally as someone with a finger in each pie, sex work and disability are very similar in how…

  • Sex & Disability,  Sex Work

    Eroticon Talk on Sex Work and Disability | Part 2

    “The aim of the talk was to give an inside view of what it’s like working within the adult industry whilst at the same time having a physical disability. Also to draw parallels between disability stigma, and sex work stigma – speaking personally as someone with a finger in each pie, sex work and disability are very similar in how…

  • Sex & Disability,  Sex Work

    Eroticon Talk on Sex Work and Disability | Part 1

    Sex Work and Disability “The aim of the talk was to give an inside view of what it’s like working within the adult industry whilst at the same time having a physical disability. Also to draw parallels between disability stigma, and sex work stigma – speaking personally as someone with a finger in each pie, sex work and disability are…

  • Disability

    Body positivity when living with multiple chronic illnesses.

    Body positivity when living with multiple chronic illnesses. I’m going to start off by saying that body positivity doesn’t come easy. Not that I think it comes easy to anyone, but it’s really easy to hate your body when it doesn’t do what you want it to do on a near-constant basis. It’s also really easy to gain a negative…

  • BDSM & Fetish,  Sex Work

    Being a Professional Dominatrix with a Disability

    I am a pretty darn good Dominatrix.  It doesn’t matter whether I’m playing for fun with play partners, paid professional work in a real-time scenario, or online sessions with clients – I’m good. I also happen to be disabled. Now, this doesn’t detract from my abilities, my kink, nor the way I conduct my sessions – whether they’re online or…

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